Shame-free, collaborative, and identity-affirming therapy to help you reclaim pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection.
Dr. Misty
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Dr. Misty •
Hi there! I’m Dr. Misty Gibson. I’m a sex therapist, counselor educator, and podcaster who believes healing isn’t about fixing what’s “wrong” with you; it’s about reclaiming pleasure, safety, and connection on your own terms. I specialize in working with adults navigating polyamory, kink, and queer identities, offering a shame-free space to explore intimacy, strengthen relationships, and untangle the impact of trauma or cultural messaging that told you your desires were “too much.”
With a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision, a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, and board certifications in clinical sex therapy and sexology, I bring depth of training and over a decade of clinical experience to my work. I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and an Approved Certified Supervisor (ACS), and my practice is grounded in trauma-informed, somatic, and relational approaches. I integrate EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and nervous-system based strategies to help clients move beyond shame and into embodied, authentic living.
Outside of the therapy room, I host Untamed Ember, a podcast and newsletter where I share practical tools and honest conversations about sex, shame, and relationships. Untamed Ember extends my clinical mission, making sex-positive, affirming education accessible, especially for those in polyamorous, kinky, and queer communities.
I founded FlowArt Therapy to be an unapologetically affirming practice where clients do not have to explain or defend who they are before they can begin to heal. While I supervise a team of skilled therapists who bring their own strengths and lived experiences, my clinical focus shapes the direction of our work: therapy that is sex-positive, identity-affirming, and rooted in the belief that everyone deserves access to pleasure, safety, and authentic connection.
Explore our services
Individual Psychotherapy
$200 and up
Therapy is not about fixing you; it is about helping you reconnect with yourself. We work with adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma, or life transitions, always with respect for your identities and experiences. Our approach is warm, affirming, and client-centered, offering tools and insight while honoring your lived truth.
EMDR
$200 and up
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful approach for healing the effects of trauma. By helping the brain and body reprocess overwhelming experiences, EMDR can reduce distress, release stuck patterns, and restore a greater sense of safety. We integrate EMDR with somatic and relational care so you can move forward with more ease, clarity, and resilience.
Sex and Relationship Therapy
$200 and up
We specialize in sex therapy that affirms polyamorous, kinky, and LGBTQ+ adults. Whether you are navigating open relationships, exploring kink, or wanting to deepen intimacy, we provide a collaborative, shame-free space to strengthen communication, heal from sexual shame, and build relationships that reflect your values and desires.
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know my therapists
Our diverse team of therapists share a commitment to sex-positive, identity-affirming care. Each therapist brings unique strengths and perspectives, and all are guided and trained by Dr. Misty’s expertise in sex therapy, polyamory, and kink. Together, we provide collaborative, trauma-informed support tailored to your needs.
Check out the Untamed Ember Podcast!
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